A quitter’s guide to not quitting

It’s January, many people start manically exercising, and eating well, and going to the gym, every day, and mediating everyday, and eating no meat, and going vegan etc etc, you get the picture. I’ve seen it time and time again, I’ve been in this industry for 23 years now and every January is the same. Don’t get me wrong, it’s brilliant that people want to start to get fitter etc, but many quit. There goals and aspirations do not fit with their lifestyles. If this is you… firstly you are NOT a bad person.

So, you’ve been known to quit in the past. In years gone by, you’ve promised yourself that you’re going to make big, lasting changes to your life, but it hasn’t been long before you’ve given up.

And that’s totally understandable. I don’t know about you, but I’ve got a pretty short attention span.

I get excited about something for a while, but I soon run out of steam, or my attention gets grabbed by something else, and before I know it all the plans I’d made have been pushed aside in favour or something else.

That, or I just lose all motivation.

Over these 23 years, though, I’ve come up with a few ways to stop myself from falling off the fitness bandwagon, and actually develop healthy habits that I stick to, permanently.

Does that sound like just what you need?

Then read on for a few tips to help you catch yourself just before you fall off the fitness bandwagon, and keep moving forwards towards all the goals you’ve set.

It’ll take persistence, but if you can push through and keep on keeping on, then sooner or later all these new healthy habits will just become part of your daily life, and won’t seem like such a trial anymore.

How to recognise when youre in danger of quitting

A lot of us suddenly wake up one day and find that we’ve completely given up on all our goals without being very sure of when and how it all went wrong.

That’s why, if you’ve got a history of quitting, it’s important to recognise the signs, and nip it in the bud before it happens.

  1. You’re exercising less often

The most obvious sign that you’re in danger of slipping back into your old ways is that your momentum is starting to slow. You might have started off exercising five days and week and now be down to three.

That means you’re quite likely to suddenly find that you’re down to one, and then none.

  1. You’re finding excuses

They might be tenuous excuses, or you might be managing to fill your time with really good excuses, but they’re still excuses.

Sure, life gets in the way sometimes, but if you were really committed to improving your fitness then you’d make it a priority.

  1. You’re seeing it as a chore

Exercise is becoming something that you feel you have to do, and never something you want to do.

It’s just another thing for you to tick off your list, like housework or emails. You’re no longer finding any joy in it.

Tips for keeping on track

So, now we’ve figured out how to notice when you’re starting to let things slide, here are a few ways to help get the momentum going again.

  1. Remember why you started

You started this for a reason. There was something that motivated you to make real, lasting change to your life. But it can be very easy to lose sight of that when life gets busy.

So whenever you notice that you’re starting to lose your enthusiasm for fitness, it’s time to think back to your why. Remind yourself what it was that pushed you into this in the first place. Chances are, the same reason is still going to be a really big motivator. Go and take a look at my youtube video all about finding your WHY!

  1. Affirmations

The mind is a powerful thing, and can often derail even the best intentions. So you need to train it, so that it starts to see your healthy, active lifestyle as the norm, and stops trying to sabotage you.

Daily affirmations are one of the best ways to internalise a belief. If you tell yourself every morning that you’re strong, committed, powerful, capable or whatever else, then you’ll soon start to believe it’s true.

  1. Give yourself visual reminders

If you find that life’s a bit hectic and sometimes exercise just gets pushed to the back of your mind, then it can be helpful to give yourself visual prompts to remind yourself what you’ve committed to and why.

Keep your trainers within plain sight. Lay out your exercise clothes the night before. Write your favourite motivational quotes, and the reasons you’ve committed to this on post-it notes and stick them around the house or on your desk so that you’ve got constant reminders of what you’re working towards.

  1. Be accountable to someone

Accountability is incredibly important whenever you’re trying to achieve something. We human beings work best in teams, and if we don’t have anyone prodding us, or reminding us of the commitments we’ve made, then it can be very easy to just not follow through.

Find someone who will push you when you need to be pushed and support you when you need to be supported.

Let them know what your long-term goals are, but also what you want to achieve in a certain week, so that they can check in and find out whether you actually did it, and ask for an explanation if you didn’t.

  1. Don’t let other people drag you down

It’s so important to have the support of others, but make sure you choose wisely.

Don’t decide to be accountable to someone who’s going to flake out a lot, and don’t use the fact that they don’t go to a class or have a week off exercise as an excuse for you to do the same.

It’s all about being present in the moment and not allowing your endless to-do list to push your fitness to one side.

Consciously make your health your top priority, and live accordingly. Give yourself all the prompts you need to push through the initial stage and make a healthy lifestyle your default way of life.

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